Do you need a key to a healthy relationship? Well, let’s change the fact that love can lead to a happy relationship because love is never enough for a long-term healthy relationship. Love cannot change anyone but efforts do. We say that you don’t need to change for your partner instead they should love you as you are but that’s all fantasy and we should get up from our dreams and realize that no prince is willing to accept a rigid character in his life and vice versa.
A partner should always be respectful with good values and a positive vision. Love is a part of a relationship but you cannot depend your life on that love. loving a toxic person and ending up with bruises is not what you deserve but opening doors for someone who values your worth are what you should gift yourself. Understanding and compatibility let you work out through all the highs and lows between the partners and where the love stands. Love fades with a lack of respect and effort, if you love someone and take them for granted that’s just your bubble in mind which will blow out after some clashes and arguments because love is not forever if you don’t value that love, and value is highlighted through efforts you make for your partner. Challenging your nature for your partner, going out of the way for them and getting a little token of love every time you meet them, embracing and owning them in Infront of everyone giving respect to them, and making them feel loved and secure. Little things you do for your partner are what make your relationship healthy and not the myth that love is what keeps you together.
Get a little gift for your partner tonight, take them on surprise dates, appreciate and complement each other from time to time, sit and counsel discuss your problems with each other, tell them your love language and show them how important they are to you, make little adjustments and compromises for them and sort out life together. Most importantly, relationships are driven with double paddles be it you are the guy or the girl you need to make sure your partner is equally respected and valued because this is where nothing discriminates. Don’t let your love die.
