People almost all around the world do favouritism even if they are being unfair they do it, Just because they can’t deny the fact that their favourite person is not being able to fulfil the needs they need to but the person who is actually trying to do everything they keep finding flaws in them in order to make themselves and their favourite person feel good. This kind of behaviour makes the other person who is trying their best feels demotivated and slowly and gradually loses interest in all the things they are trying to do. This happens everywhere wether it is School, Home or Work place. Due to this reason mostly people who are over sensitive faces anxiety depression and many more mental issues.
If a mother/father is treating one of their kids differently than others they start feeling bad about it and they don’t even discuss it with anyone so that no one makes fun of them or make it more complicated for them to deal with this fact.
In schools or universities many professors do favouritism with their favourite students and give them extra leverages without realising the fact that they are being unfair to many of students who are giving their best.
This happens a lot in Pakistan as people who have their contacts due to political or any other person to protect them get leverages for not following the rules everyone else is. Because of this many people who actually wants to follow the rules or anything start doing opposite.
Prioritising people is also a way to show love to their loved ones but not being fair to people is not something acceptable as it is harmful for mental health for someone who is not being favoured and is treated like he/she is not enough even if they are giving their best they can.
By: Minahil Saleem
