You are most definitely going to lose her if you never give her the priority that she deserves to have. When you always treat her as some kind of second option even though you are basically the entire world to her. When you are always treating her as if she’s expendable even though she thinks she wouldn’t be able to survive without having you in her life. Most definitely you are going to lose her if you never give her the validation and appreciation that she needs from you.
You are most definitely going to lose her when you always try to distance yourself from her even though all she wants is to be with you. You are always trying to shut her out because her presence makes you feel uncomfortable even though she does everything she can to make your life better. She is always working double time just to keep you happy but you won’t even give her a second glance, or you never even notice her at all. You never let her in. You never let her all the way through. You always refuse to give her a glimpse into your life even though she’s practically opened herself up entirely to you.
You are most definitely going to lose her if you keep on blurring the lines in the relationship. You never give her the kind of security that she needs to be sure about being with you. You never give her the kind of consistency that she needs from you. You always fail to deliver during the times she needs you the most even though she has never dropped the ball when it came to you. She was always pouring a hundred percent of herself into the relationship even though you rarely gave her anything. She has always tried her best to give you a world that was full of light and vibrant colors. All you ever gave her was a world of greyscale.
You are most definitely going to lose her when you refuse to just commit to her. She is always going to choose you. She is always going to put your needs above her own. She is always going to want to give you happiness even if it means she’s compromising her own sense of fulfilment. She just wants you to commit to her; she wants you to tell her that she’s the one for you and that you are all-in. But if you’re unable to give that to her, she’s eventually going to walk away from you.
